Help finding Kittilsons

I need help finding a Tom (Tor, Tov, Thor) Kittilsons, parents. Tom was born in July of 1850. He married Signe Swenson, they had a daughter in 1888, and came to the US in 1888. I believe his mother's name is Ingeborg, and I know he has a brother. Ingeborg came in 1880. Ingeborg was born about 1824. I believe they were from Telemark. When Tom came over to the US, (I have the emigrant list) it says he and Signe were from Omlid. I also heard a story, that Tom was married before Signe in Norway, they had a baby, and the wife died in childbirth, and he was so distraught, he just got up and traveled around Norway, and that is how he met Signe. The child lived, and I have no idea where they were, or the wifes name. I have a ton of information for this family once they get to US, they setteled in Minnesota, Roseau County. Thank you, Kim Kucera