Military man, early years pre-1785 wanting.

Ole Ingebrethsen Lyngved must have been born about 1741, based on his death at age 68, 1809 Oct 6, death, Ole Ingebrethsen Lyngved age 68 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NWNS-FJ2 https://media.digitalarkivet.no/en/view/9563/45831/43 His wife died 13 years later, 1822 Oct 16, Gunild Arnesdatter (fattiglem = pauper) age 68 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NWK3-HZQ https://media.digitalarkivet.no/en/view/9575/45838/19 #209 I would like to find their marriage, their births, christenings, or confirmations, their parents' names, etc. Other known records, births and deaths of their children, in Kristiansand, in chronological order: 1785 death of daughter Gunild Marie (c.1782-1785) https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NWFV-M2Q 1785 Mar 23, birth, 1785 Mar 28, baptism, son Arne (1785-1786) https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:N4PK-S62 https://media.digitalarkivet.no/en/view/9561/45824/107 #37 1786 Jun 24, death, Arne age 1, https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NWFV-WY8 1788 Feb 28, birth, 1788 Mar 5, baptism, Gunnild Marie (1788-1793) https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:N4PK-8YL https://media.digitalarkivet.no/en/view/9561/45824/151 #29 (Ole is a grenadier with General Adjutant Luchow's Companie. ) 1791 Apr 18, birth, 1791 Apr 25, baptism, Arne (eventually emigrated to America) https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NH9K-X89 https://media.digitalarkivet.no/en/view/9561/45824/190 #39 1793 Apr 17, death, Gunild Marie (1788-1793) (birth above) https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NWFV-8JG 1794 Apr 16, birth of twins, 1794 Apr 25, baptism, Gunild Marie and Oline Marie (1794-1795) https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:N4P2-MXH https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:N4P2-MX8 https://media.digitalarkivet.no/en/view/9561/45824/222 1795 Apr 8, burial, Oline https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NWNM-832 1797 Mar 28, birth, 1797 Apr 2, baptism, Inger Birgitte https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:N4PK-PS4 https://media.digitalarkivet.no/en/view/9561/45824/240 (Ole is a grenadier.) 1800 Jul 4, birth, 1800 Jul 13, baptism, Hans (1800-1801), https://media.digitalarkivet.no/en/view/9561/262 1801 Apr 17, burial, Hans, https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NWN9-S4J 1802 Jun 8, birth, 1802 Jun 13, baptism, Olene https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:N4PK-RMG https://media.digitalarkivet.no/en/view/9561/45824/270 (Ole is a guard.)